It’s not so much about what you wear. It’s more about how you wear it. It’s also not so much how you wear decent clothes, but more that you are decent in character.

As we move into a more modern age, with everything becoming more commercialised, more ‘out there’ and loud, we often lose focus of what really matters.

People are angry and rude which is why they have little respect. I see it in the work place everyday.

I used to think perhaps it was me, that I was doing something wrong, but as I grew older and worked for longer, I realised it was never me.

We have moved into a more ‘free’ society – but are we really free?

It is NOT ok to be rude to someone even if you are upset.

It is NOT ok to throw a tantrum at the office if someone hasn’t done something (there could be many variables why they didn’t, why don’t you find out nicely?)

It’s NOT ok to think you are better than others because you have a higher ranking at work, or otherwise.

It’s NOT ok for you to spread your miserable attitude onto others

I am tired of rude people.



Less is more …. 

We have moved to a new and improved way of staying clean, feeling sexy and looking good.

We live in a time of full body waxes and taking ‘less is more’ to a whole new level.

Even the usual Bikini waxes are becoming more and more unpopular as the much ‘awwwwwed’ Hollywood or Full Brazilian takes center stage in today’s sex driven society! 

If you need a crash course, this may help:

Have you ever had a full body wax? If you haven’t, I recommend trying it – just once – you will literally feel like a new person and I guarentee your world will change – forever!

When you feel beautiful, you look beautiful! 

If you’re still feeling icky about the thought of some stranger checking out your assets… Just change the way you think! This person is a professional and trust me, they really don’t want to see your stuff or talk about it further! It’s their job and everything stays behind closed doors… And after a few visits, it starts feeling normal and ‘unawkward’.

I now have hearty conversations with my Beauty Therapist while she attends to my grooming needs… So give it time!  

Being well groomed can be an expensive habit and I agree, is difficult to maintain regularly if you can’t afford it. I recommend subscribing to Farah Dukhai as she has amazing DIY tips (there are many more amazing bloggers, but she has become my favorite so far).

If you watched The Wolf of Wall Street, you would have picked up when Leo’s character talks to his Dad about how women are all clean and his dad responds by saying how times have changed.

And it has, tremendously so too. We have come so far that I have the freedom to blog about it!

So whether you love it or not… It is better to have said “I tried” than not having experienced showering and climbing into bed under clean sheets just after a wax!!! 

I say YES to the pain and YAY to being born in our modern times! #HairFreeWomen

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Dear Human Child…


Fear not, go show the world how wise you are. Help the world grow. Invent, create and develop your world.

Do not take belittling seriously. Do not fear those who treat you badly. Do not hold grudges. Do not let any circumstance or consequence make you feel less worthy.

Strive to always be better and do better.

Never lose sight of the shore and always aim to be the best at what you do.

Use negative circumstances as motivation. This way, you will rise and prove that dignity, discipline and good values are far more important. Fight back by being better! Doing better… WINNING!

It may take a long time, but you will see the fruits of your resilience and perseverance.

Adapt, adjust and accommodate.

Be stronger and believe.

And for the days you need extra encouragement, close your eyes and remember… I am forever at your beckon call and I will never fail you!


With eternal love,


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